
Remember the good ol' days? Sitting in your cubicle, the din of the office in your ears - photocopiers running, footsteps walking the hall, your neighbors chit chatting. You'd meet a group of colleagues in the cafeteria for lunch or coffee, or if you were in high tech like me, a game of foosball. 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, you had near constant contact with other people.
But now, you're a workshifter. Your days consist of a 20 foot commute to your desk, Jay-Z on repeat, and the removal of the occasional cat from your keyboard. Hours go by without seeing or speaking to anyone. You're head down in your work, being super productive....but there's something missing.
As much as the life of a workshifter has its perks - better hours, less distraction, and more job satisfaction - it can be a lonely existence. Some days, hubby will come home from his office job and he's the only person I've actually spoken to all day. You can imagine the earful he gets!
Like anything, fighting the loneliness and isolation the workshifting life can cause is about taking action and finding balance. Here are a few things I've learned.
The Coffee Shop is Your Friend
A change of scenery is a huge motivator, so if you're feeling stuck, get out of the house. If you're a workshifter, you need to have a regular coffee shop - it's just that simple. I actually have a few coffee shops that I frequent. My neighborhood shop, Timothy's is great, because they know me best, and don't mind if I hang out for a few hours (I do my best to keep consuming their beverages for as long as I'm taking up table space). I also have Two Monkeys Coffee, which is a bit more of a trek from my place, but worth it for their yummy soup and quiet environment. Then there's Raw Sugar, my downtown stop. All have free wifi, comfortable seats, and of course, good beverages.
And the best part about the coffee shop? I meet people there all the time. Once you become a regular, you get to know who the other regulars are. Coffee shop lineups are a fantastic way to fit in a bit of networking. So get out of the house once in a while. Get to a place where you feel comfortable and can focus. You'll be amazed at the results.
Be Friends with Other Workshifters
One of the things I did when I first got on Twitter back in 2007 was do a search for people in my city. I was pleasantly surprised to find that, not only is there a very active Twitter community here in Ottawa, but that many of the people I was meeting were also workshifters. I became friends with several of those people online and then moved our friendship to the offline world.
At least once a week I make a point of scheduling to have coffee or lunch with one of my local friends. Often, we will go to a place where we know other friends hang out. I can't tell you how many times a 2-person coffee date has become an informal Tweetup. If you're worried about losing productivity because you're busy meeting for coffee all the time, then don't. Make sure you set a time limit on the meeting (1/2 hour or 45 minutes, tops), and you'll be fine. Everyone is busy, so your fellow workshifters will appreciate the quick meetup as much as you do.
Find folks in your town that workshift, and go for coffee, or lunch and get to know them. I find that sometimes I get pretty cranky if I'm spending too much time alone. Sometimes the simple act of meeting a friend for a coffee is enough to get my mood on the upswing and get me re-motivated.
Share a Workspace
A lot of cities now have co-working spaces like The Code Factory here in Ottawa. You can do everything there from rent office space to just spending a few hours in a communal work environment. I know lots of people who like to work this way, even for just part of their week.
But it doesn't even have to be that formal. Every Friday, my friend Tom holds #FridayOffice, where he goes to a local restaurant around lunch time, and works for the afternoon. Whoever wants to come by and work, chat, have lunch, etc. can do so. Often about 2pm on a Friday you'll walk in and see Tom and 3 or 4 other people sitting around a table, laptops open, working away. Everyone is welcome and it's a real community feeling. There's nothing formal about it - if you want to work, you work. If you want to socialize, you socialize. It's fun and productive and has become an institution for many within our community.
Even as a workshifter, there's no reason to be lonely - just get out and find ways to meet other people once in a while. It's important to have that balance, and you never know what opportunities might come your way!
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